Madison WI in-person dating experience.  Nominate a high quality single man and high quality women can apply for a photo shoot with him

-Let's put a spin on this dating thing-

We select a high quality Madison WI area single man

Local single ladies apply to be hand-selected for an in-person photo session experience with him

It's basically like a matchmaker and a photographer had a baby


Meet Our Current Bachelor


Successful business owner and father of one

Located in the Madison WI area

In his free time he enjoys spending time with with his robust community, DJing, attending music festivals, and working on creating a regenerative farm on his property.


A smiling man crouches beside a young blonde girl in a cream dress as a brown calf licks his face in a grassy pasture.

Applications for this round are currently closed

Finalist will be announced Wed Nov 11, 2026


We're looking for our next bachelor!


Know a high-quality eligible man?

Nominate him today


THE STRANGER BACHELOR

Frequently Asked Questions


1. What exactly is The Stranger Bachelor?

The Stranger Bachelor is a real-life dating experience created by Wild Violet Photography. We’ve selected an eligible bachelor, and now we’re inviting single women to apply for the opportunity to meet him during a one-of-a-kind professional photo session. Think less dating app, more real-life introduction!


2. Who is the bachelor?

Our first bachelor is a Madison-area entrepreneur and father who enjoys friends, family, community, music festivals, and building his dream of a self-sustaining farm. He’s looking for someone energetic, growth-minded, open-minded, and excited about life.


3. Who can apply?

Single women between the ages of 30 and 45 who are genuinely open to meeting someone new!


4. How does the selection process work?

Women can submit an application or be nominated by someone who thinks they’d be a great match. We’ll review the applications and select our top 10 finalists. From those finalists, one woman will be personally hand-selected by Wild Violet Photography based on compatibility and potential connection.


This is not a random drawing. Thoughtfully chosen, never randomly drawn.


5. Does the bachelor know who is applying?

No! He knows he’s participating and that he’ll be meeting someone new, but he won’t know which women have applied or who has been selected. You’ll know a little about him. You’ll be a complete surprise to him.


6. What happens during the Stranger Session?

The selected woman and bachelor will meet for the very first time during a professionally photographed session. I’ll guide the experience and capture the natural interactions, expressions, and moments as two people get to know each other.


7. Is this an actual date?

It’s a real-life introduction with the possibility of a connection! There’s no guarantee of romance, but that’s part of the fun. The goal is to create an opportunity for two people to meet outside the usual dating-app experience.


8. Does applying cost anything?

No! Applying and nominating someone are completely free.


9. Can I nominate someone else?


Absolutely! If you know a single woman who fits the description, we’d love for you to nominate her. If she’s selected as one of our top 10 finalists, we’ll reach out to her.


10. What if I’m nervous?

That’s completely normal! Meeting someone for the first time can feel a little intimidating. I’ll be there to guide the session and help everyone feel comfortable. You don’t need to be a professional model or have any photography experience.


11. What happens after the photo session?

That’s up to the two people involved! The session creates an opportunity to meet and see whether there’s a connection. Any relationship beyond the experience is entirely their choice.


12. How do I apply?

Simply fill out the form below 💜


Same great people. Just a different way to meet.

Wild Violet Photography


Smiling man in a plaid flannel shirt hugs a young blonde child in an autumn forest with golden foliage and tall grass.
Smiling man carrying a happy little girl on his shoulders as she stretches her arms wide in a grassy countryside field near a wooden fence.
A man in a plaid shirt sits on a grassy hillside holding a young child, with a pond, barns, and autumn trees in the background.
A man in a gray t-shirt bends down and reaches out a hand to a curious brown calf in a green pasture with other calves nearby.